Tag: Grief
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MESSAGES
I inadvertently deleted all the messages to and from my dear friend on messenger today. I had kept them as far back as 2012 when I casually asked if he could help trace my grandfather’s grave. Apart from intermittent birthday wishes, it was not until we both found ourselves in need of living friendly support…
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IT HAPPENED AGAIN
Something about your room retains an opening into the next plane. When I am back at the other house although I dream, I don’t travel with you in the way that I do from your room. As I lay in your bed and watch the beautiful face of the winged woman staring down at me,…
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There’s no Green at Waverley
Green 💚 represents the heart chakra. So that’s why I have chosen this title today I am listening to Nirijan Kaur as I write this and “I am” comes on next and I am reminded of the manifestation chart you sent me three years ago with the words IAM written on the heart in the…
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MY DEFENCE MECHANISM IS SELF DESTRUCTIVE
A recent group family outing photograph, allowed me to see the health damage I have been inflicting upon myself. Allowing winter weight to pile on the pounds is my familiar “go to” defence mechanism whenever I am struggling emotionally. It’s a pattern deliberately (whether consciously or subconsciously) I see myself absorbing when faced with emotions…
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NO TIMELINE FOR GRIEF
Yesterday whilst talking with my dear friend, I was reminded how although Helen Kubler Ross described the stages of grief so eloquently (and this is generally accepted by bereavement support counsellors all over the world) there is and never will be a timeline for those stages. Loss, especially when met within a loving partnership heightens…
